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however it did not and so um because i seemed like things were still not going the way that i thought that they should i was like nah i i i can’t do therapy any longer particularly because of the ex the expenditure therefore i stopped seeing that therapist and so fast forward a couple months later i’m still recognizing that i need help like mentally i’m going through ups and downs i am um going through those um you understand i spoke about this in the conceited video however i’m going through those low and high mood swings i’m going through like all of these different things that i knew that i might not deal with by myself so i was desperately looking for a therapist i was desperately looking for one and i kept running into wall after wall after wall Betterhelp Staff

actually feel like she was taking notice of me and i in fact choose video therapy um over you know texting or e-mail whatever i don’t know if they do therapy through email i don’t believe so but i actually choose video over anything and so i did that in hopes that we would have the ability to develop off of what we had already been kind of talking about and some of the problems that we have been discussing and so it did not end up being um it didn’t turn out to be what i wanted it to be she appeared to be truly distracted it remained in my mind it resembled she was playing solitaire or something on her computer like she never ever for like she would take a look at me every so often but probably 97 of the time she was searching in another direction and that didn’t truly make me seem like i was hurt or being listened to and so she you know was likewise like on her phone and simply i do not understand it simply was really strange now much better hope they they just make use of licensed therapists and so i had looked this uh looked her up since i just wanted to make sure whatever was legit and it was um but the um you understand how they say you understand like bedside manners like with doctors i didn’t um i don’t actually understand what it would be phone side mentor video side manner i do not know therapy side manner heard way didn’t work for me um and so like i stated i i didn’t really feel as if i the one thing that i wanted to do most like i said was a video option i didn’t actually feel as if that was the greatest suit of my therapist now we did have really you know extensive conversation but um there were there were long times when i would state specific things and

she would respond with something that resembled incredibly random or in some cases she was you understand respond to what i said or like i don’t know it simply didn’t look like she was extremely present um so i got a brand-new therapist through the better health platform therefore when you are signing up for a therapist you have to complete like this questionnaire and they designate you to someone and so i submitted the questionnaire once again um and it you have to go into you know well i entered into depth on my situation and so that didn’t actually feel excellent to have to go through that procedure all over again um however i was like whatever so that brand-new therapist got assigned to me and then she sent me a message that stated you actually ought to be trying to find somebody who focuses on this i would encourage you to change your provider so then i had to refill out the um questionnaire once again go through that entire trauma of filling it out again and then i was appointed to another therapist so i uh my therapist and i were utilizing the messaging function she wasn’t as responsive as my first therapist however she still was responsive enough therefore then i signed up for a video for Betterhelp Staff

so it cost me 272 dollars which was with the financial assistance um and the the one thing that i really truly delighted in about um much better assistance was the reality that i might talk with my therapist at any point therefore that’s what i started doing i was i was talking to my therapist non-stop through text message so we were texting back and forth talking to her non-stop um any any and whatever that i was feeling i was talking with my therapist about it and um i chose that i wanted to do a video a video with her so i wanted to do a um a live the live video option therefore when i did that um the chemistry and the rapport and all of the things that i felt like we constructed just wasn’t there and i didn’t.